Think For Yourself - Gain Control
Stop letting the opinions, judgements, and validation of/from others dictate your state of mind, confidence level, and attitude. Stop doing things just because others say it is thr right thing to do, or that that is what you should do. Stop letting your life be determined by the beliefs and conditionings of other people.
Take control, take charge, and take action. Be confident to stand on your own and make your own decisions, care less about what others may think, seek the answers within yourself instead of external sources.