Be Assertive and Have Self Authority
Authority - the power or right to give orders, make decisions, and enforce obedience. Have this power over yourself! Stick to your decisions, have your own best interest in mind, and stay disaplined towards your goals!
Assertive - having or showing a confident and forceful personality. How great would it be not to have to debate within your head as to whether what you have to say will..."stir the pot." Speak confidently! Stand up for yourself!